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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have 2 siblings and it all fell on at end of life. Please people stop making this your reason to have multiples. I guess you are playing the odds…but it doesn’t always work out thatvway. Stop having kids just to have them xare for you at end of life…have them because you genuinely want AND can handle them. Kids are a big investment with no guaranteed return on investment. [/quote] +1 I also don't think it makes sense/is ethical to create a person as a companion for another person. Both children are individuals. They may or may not provide companionship for each other but ultimately their most important relationships growing up will be with you - their parents. I love my brother, it was nice to have a playmate at home growing up, but as adults we live very separate lives. I don't see him being particularly helpful dealing with end of life stuff either.[/quote]
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