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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is with the repeated threads in recent months about meeting and marrying wealthy people? Do that many of the posters on this site crave wealth and use it as a yardstick for measuring dates? Do people just hope to stop working as soon as possible in their lives and live off what a spouse brings to the marriage? How transactional and mercenary. Yeah, I'm judging and I own the fact I'm judging. It just screams "I want to be 'kept.'" And no amount of excuses like "But! I only desire for our kids to want for nothing!" or "I fear being poor because I was raised poor" or other supposed "reasons" could stop this thinking from being mercenary. [/quote] It’s disgusting. Make your own gdamn $ !! I really loathe “the man is the plan” thinking and parents that instill this type of thinking in their daughters are just gross people in 2023.[/quote] +1 I tell my 14 yr old DD, "A man is not a plan". Having stated that, I tell her to marry someone who is smart and not afraid to work hard, and of course, one who is kind to her, like her father is to me. He wasn't "wealthy" by dcum definition, but he was doing well. He was 36 when we started dating. I was also in my 30s.[/quote]
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