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[quote=Anonymous]It's totally unfair, OP, that your MIL doesn't have the same right as your husband. I agree with him on that. But I also agree that you and your husband are NOT going through the same thing. Yes, fatherhood is a huge deal just like motherhood is, and you are both becoming parents. But you are the ones with hormones, labor, BF, nudity in labor (likely), vaginal checks etc. etc. I agree with the possibility of counseling. I also think that you need to look up and show him what happens to women when they are in labor and have other stresses (maybe see some home birth stuff, even if this is completely not something you are into). Women usually un-dialate and have some stalling in labor when they enter the hospital, and this is a perfectly naturaly response to being outside your comfort zone. I can't even imagine how long labor would have taken me in the first stages if my MIL was looking at my vagina. (Later on you probably wont care at all) [/quote]
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