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[quote=Anonymous]I am surprised at the vitriol toward OP on this post and I suspect it’s because those posters identify with OP’s spouse. Have you had conversations about retirement? What you want it to look like? I would talk about how being active is important to you and invite him to do some things that are maybe a baby step for him. If he is putting up walls then I would find a therapist who might have better ideas for me. Then, if he still decides he’s ready to start his decline, I would make sure I had enough financially to take care of his impending ill health and start planning my own active retirement without him. I’m sorry, OP, you are in a tough situation. [/quote]
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