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[quote=Anonymous]Fwiw when I was 20 I started dating a 29 year old. We dated for 3 years and at the end I realized I had idealized him because of his older age, and learned the hard way what loving myself really looked like. At the end of the relationship a mentor of mine said… “with men you can either marry someone older then you and do things his way, or marry someone your age and make a life together”. I get there are exceptions to this generalization but it really hit a chord with me. I ended up marrying a guy a few years later about the same age. My point is sometimes we have relationships we learn from. I’m not judging those and this message is not for those we dated and married someone older than them and all worked out. Just my 2 cents. [/quote]
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