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[quote=Anonymous]A good nanny is never going to tell you that the kid's grandmother can't come over when the nanny is there. But most nannies (heck, most human beings) would not be happy if this happened every single week. So tell the MIL that it is not fair to the nanny to ask this of her; that it is disruptive to the routine and rapport she has with DC. If she pushes back, she will be acting inappropriately and THAT is your opportunity to address head-on her manipulative and intrusive tendencies. Sounds like it is a confrontation that needs to involve DH, since he seems to be oblivious. [/quote]
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