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[quote=Anonymous]It’s such a tough spot - people saying leave like we are in some perfect world where your leaving would give you full custody. But the reality is that even angry, nasty people get to be parents and he’d likely get 50% if he wanted it and then there is no buffer between him and the kids For my dh I called the behavior what it is “abusive” which pissed him off but made a point, and then said he either got help for it and cut it out or I’d burn our lives down to protect our kids from it and not hide from a damn soul including his colleagues how he treated his kids. And I was serious and that finally out fear in him to get treatment He made some progress but it wasn’t until he had a breakthrough about some of his own childhood trauma that caused a bubbling anger always beneath the surface for him that he really moved the needle. It was a parenting skills issue but also way bigger than that [/quote]
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