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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can invite now. I have two invites for March at the  moment. [/quote]

March?!?! This is a kid birthday party, not a wedding!

Who sends a birthday party invitation two months in advance?[/quote]

Yeah. That's tacky. It says. :My child is very important and I am sending this way in advance to ensure that none of you miss my child's very important birthday party." A text to the 1-3 best friends 5 weeks out, sure! I do that before I book. But to 22 friends? No. And if the idea is to get some RSVPs early, that is unlikely to happen anyway.

How old is your kid. At some point, birthday parties should not be about your family frieds but just the kid's friends. [/quote]

What?!?   No. It says “I just booked this and want to send the evite before I forget.”   Stop looking for ways to label others “tacky.”   That’s tacky.  (See what I did there?)[/quote]

I daresay it says "my kid would love if your kid could come to their party and since we are all up to our eyeballs in sports practices and swim meets and piano lessons and other sibling activities, we thought it would be courteous to provide advance notice so you can put it on your calendar and make arrangements to move things around if needed."  I don't think that's tacky at all.  In fact, I think the opposite - I can't stand when we get a party invitation for a party in a week, or even two weeks, because to me that says "my kid should be more important than anything you already have planned so drop everything and come to this party."  We are busy.  Everyone is busy.  So giving people the courtesy of a little notice is the complete opposite of tacky.[/quote]

Yeah no, no one is going to rearrange their schedule for your kid's birthday party.  If we happen to be free that day, sure, my kid will go.  Unless it is a good friend, kid bday parties are not priority for other people's families.[/quote]

Not PP but I like to know ahead of time too. I may not cancel a sports game but I also won't proactively make plans that conflict with the party, especially if it's a friend my child is close to or a party they would want to go to.[/quote]

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