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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is just an insidious way of centering yourself. It was never about you and your judgment. [/quote] What a jerk response! OP is “dumping out”, meaning she is expressing her complicated feelings to someone farther away from the crisis. This forum is a completely appropriate place to do that. I also want to point out that nobody has mentioned that the BABY will be dealing with the consequences of this for her entire life. I have two family members who experienced something similar and both kids had problems. One is now an adult and still needs support. Birth trauma is a big deal. I currently have a different family member who is going to use a midwife in a center. I feel you, OP.[/quote] +1 million on all of these thoughts. To the poster talking about it is the woman’s “medical event” and no one else should have a say - give me a break. I also would feel guilty in OP’s situation. [/quote]
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