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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those suggesting Airbnb or hotel (especially when ILs visit), don’t you get pushback? We moved recently and tried to say we didn’t have a space set up yet and MIL brought old sheets and said she could use an air mattress, which she obviously wouldn’t actually be comfortable with and would just complain about her back pain if that happened. [/quote] I think that part of being an adult is understanding that sometimes people will "push back" or complain or not be happy or or or and just accepting that. So many DCUM posts are asking for advice on how to do a certain thing that you want to do while also keeping everybody happy (even though they don't want you to do the thing that you want to do). It's just an impossible goal. Maybe it helps to think of it like parenting - sometimes you have to do or make your kid do the unpopular thing they don't want because you've decided it's for the best and then just live with the negative feedback.[/quote]
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