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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Adding -- I know this is not your own son, OP, and this is (as someone said) kind of a game of "telephone," but if I were his mom and he were asking for advice I'd be sure to tell him I thought she was seeking a baby daddy and if he gets her pregnant [i]she and her threats and mental issues will be in his life for the entire rest of his life.[/i] So end any sex, immediately, no matter how much she begs, cries or pleads. She may be lying to him about being on birth control, may have told him she can't have kids etc. At 20, he's likely to believe whatever she says on that subject.

Just adding this thought in addition to the posts above about what he should say when she makes threats of self-harm.

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I know a successful man who was hoodwinked this way.  He met a Czech woman, blonde, sexy, beautiful and she promptly got pregnant and announced it during the holidays in front of both families.  His parents were laying it hard on him to give them grandchildren so he married her.  Within a year of the marriage there were fist-fights, but more kids.  It was ugly ugly ugly.  She already had another kid which should have been a red flag to everybody involved.  He has to deal with this hysterical mother of his children for the rest of his life.[/quote]

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