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[quote=Anonymous]Here, I'll make up another one for you.

OP: My husband suddenly started working out a few months, and he is dressing nicer. He is working nights and going on weekend business trips. When he's home, he's snippy with me and I sometimes find him texting, and then he hides the screen. I found a pair of panties that aren't mine in his suitcase, and a pack of condoms, which we don't use. What in the world could be going on?
NP: I think your DH is having an affair!
DP: My DH was behaving similarly, and then I discovered he was having an affair.
Crazy Lady Poster: HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT? YOU DON'T KNOW HER DH!! YOU ARE MAKING THINGS UP. FICTION!! YOU ARE A BIZARRE PERSON WHO MAKES THINGS UP ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE!

So, Crazy Lady Poster, I will break it down for you. Behavior happens in patterns. Some patterns indicate certain things, like that your DH is having an affair, or that your mother has a personality disorder (PD). When your mother has a personality disorder, she has a pattern of behavior that is just like other PDs. One pattern of a PD is to DARVO in any conversation in which she in confronted by a complaint about herself. So the ensuing conversation, after telling mom "I don't like it when you lash out on my birthday," is extremely predictable.

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