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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not bring a baby into an unhappy home. The baby won’t create happiness.

I have 3 kids. [b]All three kids would be perfectly fine being an only child[/b]. I wonder how different their personalities would be if they didn’t grow up with siblings. [/quote]

NP.  I hope you realize how condescending this is. You absolutely have no way of knowing this.  I'm willing to bet you wanted three kids and got three, or at least wanted more than one and got it.

You have no idea how hard it is to have an only not by choice.  You have no idea about the inherent dynamics of just one.  You have no idea how much you worry about your only.  Just no idea.

OP, I have an only not by choice.  Definitely seek out a different therapist.  You have infertility to deal with, as well as not being on the same page as DH.  That's me and it's an awful combo.  I am alone in my grief and my worry about my DD being lonely.  Although focusing on her helps.  Individual therapy has helped and DH and I are going to do couples therapy to work through my feelings of resentment.

Hugs to you.[/quote]

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