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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, enjoy this man’s company. Stop fretting and truly enjoy him in every way. You both know what marriage is like and you both have exited that institution either by choice or circumstance. Either way, there’s no "right way" to be with someone. The long distance thing may be a blessing. That’s what is now presented to you. If he’s a decent human being and you think there’s a chance you two could stay together after the kids are off to college (may seem like a long time now, but it will pass quickly), then continue dating and building towards the future. Keep it simple. [/quote]

That sounds very logical but I will get attached if it goes on much longer, and I’m really wary of getting hurt right now. I wish I could just keep it simple. [/quote]

OP unless you guys are willing to carry on a LDR until your kids are in college I would just enjoy the hot sex on occasion.  But recognize that’s all that’s available.  I for one would be thrilled with this arrangement, but for some people sex and emotions are so tied up together.[/quote]

Are you male or female, PP? I definitely get emotionally attached after good sex, and this is already genuinely a friend, so yeah... --OP[/quote]

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