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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if it were me, I think I'd give myself through the end of this year and maybe even into January to effectively live without my husband. I would stop engaging, basically stop communicating, and stop expecting him to do anything at all. Pretend as if he doesn't exist and make your own plans (I know that is hard with the holidays since they are such a family-oriented time). If that sounds exhausting, well, that's what it would be like to be a single mother. But at the very least it should give you an idea of what it would be like to not have him in your life (and maybe make him see what it would be like to not be in your life). Maybe it'll be a wake up call, for better or for worse, for both of you. I think right now in reading your post it sounds like you're just fighting the reality you find yourself in. Accepting it might not make you like it, but it's the first step to moving on to something else, whether it's a better marriage or divorce. [/quote]
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