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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Truthfully don’t understand what divorce solves. Now you’re a single mom raising an infant spending money and time on and in court. That’s the life you did sign up for? I think you’re past the point of getting the life you wanted. Not to mention the statistics of kids growing up in a broken home are ABYSMAL. Most of life is dealing with consequences from earlier decisions - both good and bad. You married him knowing what he was like, and brought a child into that relationship. It’s not just about you anymore. [/quote] It would free OP up to find a better SO, and be less lonely. Maybe the kid could have a step parent who doesn't view spending time together as a burden.[/quote] 1) do you remember dating? Like, at all? Not to mention even if she does have the necessary time and energy, a single mom in her 30s to an infant isn’t exactly getting her door beaten down. 2) What in the fresh hell are you talking about? You clearly have seen no research on children growing up without their own dad in the home. Sometimes it’s inevitable (death), but no - mom feeling lonely is not something you just flippantly divorce over and leave your child to deal with the consequences. Nearly every school shooter grew up without their dad. It’s freaking serious once kids are involved and just acting like it’s a casual decision is messed up AF. [/quote]
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