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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We send a joint Xmas card.

It’s a picture of our whole family at a graduation.

It’s normal for an amicable divorce. It’s not normal if there was abuse or a toxic environment.

I thinks it’s super weird for step mom to send a “family” photo at Xmas with somebody else’s kids. That’s super weird.[/quote]

No, what's weird is you sending out cards with your ex.

The stepmom is part of a new family that involves your former husband and children.

If you cannot accept this and are sending out cards with your "family" (including the ex), I assure you that you are the one being perceived as "super weird."[/quote]

There is no step mom in my situation but my kids friends have stepmoms they send out cards and believe me they do not feel like she is part of their family. It’s especially weird when the kids are in college when she appeared.

She is not their mom, she does not parent them. They rarely even see her, but yea send out a card as if these kids are your family.

We do holidays together, birthdays, graduation and travel to parents weekend together.

Sorry if that violates your made up rules about divorce, or maybe your the step mom who is jealous.

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