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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What did DH do that resulted in legal trouble and getting fired from a school job?

Sorry, but this sounds like sexual abuse of a much younger cousin.

If that's not the story, explain. Because if you told me this exactly as you posted here, my kids would never be in the same room as your DH.[/quote]

OP here: There was zero abuse.

He was charged with voyourism ten years ago. He had taken a few upskirt photos of women, including a teenager (he was not aware of this) over the course of a few years.

Said cousin accused him of trying to groom his (cousin’s) younger sister. This stemmed from the fact DH had started writing letters to his younger sister (pre-pubescent at the time) after a family reunion a few years prior. There was no substance to these claims, again the only underaged ‘victim’ in DH’s case was 17, and the letters were perfectly acceptable, it was just a penal relationship between cousins who lived across the country from each other. These accusations were only ever made by him (a teenager at the time), and vaguely by his sister, and their parents did not agree with them (the parents even provided financial assistance during the trial for legal costs). DH was never alone with his sister, or had any opportunity to be alone with her at the time.[/quote]
Team Cousin.
Your DH is the one who should be disinvited. Is this even a real poster?[/quote]

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