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[quote=Anonymous]It's amazing how obsessed these abusive people get having interaction. You shouldn't have to join a witness protection program to get away from someone, but sadly these people need a way to keep the crazy going.

I understand the stress OP I truly do. Some don't. Some people don't understand what it is like to have deranged parent determined to engage. Some will say "she just wants to make sure you are safe." It's the same with gifts...some will say "she just wants to be generous with you." They don't understand with manipulative people gifts are a way to force engagement, and try to make you feel like you owe them. There is always some proverbial string danging from the gift, ready to choke you.

I have a parent and sibling just like this. They are both extremely unhappy people who have scared off friends and they both are much more stable and manageable when medicated, but both refuse to stay on meds.I don't know if there is anything you can legally do if no threat has been made.

If a police officer shows up at your door for a welfare check I would let the officer know why you are estranged from your mother and see if she/he has suggestions to make her back off. I would stay as calm as possible. If she shows up at your door calmly ask her to leave or you will call the police. If she screams verbal daggers and pushes your buttons simply stay calm and repeat and then see if it's enough to get a restraining order.[/quote]

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