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[quote=Anonymous]You can set your own boundary and let the chips fall as they may. At least when you ask people not to give you gifts you are saving them some work, though some people obsessively need to impose stuff on others. It's harder if they want gifts. If they struggle financially and I can afford it and they like get gifts, then i would get things they want. If they are well off and just really like the whole gift exchange thing, that would be more difficult. They can afford to buy themselves anything and why play a guessing game you don't enjoy or spend all that money. You could certainly say you used the money to donate to charity. Makes them look pretty selfish to protest that. I would not do that to family members who are not well off because they could use that money so why not give them some as a gift if that is what they want.[/quote]
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