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Reply to "My girlfriend only wants to spend Christmas with her family. I think this is so selfish. "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in a similar situation with the distance and we alternate years for Thanksgiving and Christmas. So it looks like this: 2022 Thanksgiving: Mine 2022 Christmas: His 2023 Thanksgiving: His 2023 Christmas: Mine He did not love this when it started because Christmas is his favorite holiday, but add in kids and real life commitments (ie we have jobs and can’t take weeks off work to drive 10 hours) and this is the best option for us. [/quote] +1 This is what we do. Exhausting since none of us live in the same city. No one comes to us because we are the ones who moved to a new city, and our respective extended families have all stayed put. So we travel to them in alternating years. I would discuss all of this upfront before marriage. Basically, if you are the ones always traveling, that means you never develop your own traditions in your own home with your kids. [/quote]
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