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[quote=Anonymous]These threads pop up here fairly frequently, so it really does seem to be something lots of folks struggle with. OP, I’m more similar to you than not. Grew up middle class and went to an elite school. I spent a lot of time observing my wealthier peers and that helped a ton. I’m working as a lawyer now and while I’ve done well, at times I see my high flying peers making crazy money at firms (I left as a mid level) and wonder what if.

You’re right that having the right parents and guidance (later in the form of mentors and sponsors) is key. But you also need to be honest with yourself so you can course correct where possible and guide your kids. Some observations,

You are likely very short term focused (clock out at 5). Train yourself to think about how todays actions impact tomorrow etc. or, think about it top down. Where do I want to be in 5 years and are todays decisions serving me?

Also think big picture. Sure $60k is a lot for one person. But is a lot for a family? In a HCOL city? I did that math and as a result, left DC. Really try to train your brain to see the 30k foot view and not what’s right in front of you.

I say this not because I’m trying to be mean. And im certainly not perfect (I tend to bury my head in the sand about bad news, I hate change. I have my flaws too!) But I want you to control what you can and be better because of it. Good luck. [/quote]

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