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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been divorced from my husband for over a year.  Recently, he started bringing his girlfriend around our kids all the time.  [b]She is watching them when he is unavailable.[/b]  And attending high school events as well.  I have no respect for my ex-husband and our marriage did not end on great terms.  We do not co-parent; we parallel parent.

I am trying to get comfortable with a woman being around my children and it is a struggle for me.  I am wondering how others in my situation have dealt with this and whether it made you anxious.  And how did you finally get comfortable with the situation.  While I know my kids adore me and we have a great relationship, I guess there is a slight worry that they may see her as the new shiny penny and me as the boring mom. [/quote]

Are you available during those times? Do you have right of first refusal? If so, you should excersize it.

I've only had to deal with this briefly (divorced this year, ex immediately (or perhaps before the divorce) started a relationship). I ended up feeling mostly ok when she was around dc-dc tended to be cleaner and better dressed LOL when they came home to me. Plus ex was putting on him 'normal good guy' act for her so it benefitted my dc. But dc always prefers me, never the gf. Unfortunately, ex broke up with her...I was disappointed! [/quote]

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