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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you read my question?  Because your answer is completely non-responsive.  [/quote]

NP. I read your original post and your question was answered with perfect advice..

You are still angry with your ex and you hate that he is moving on with his life and you aren't.  [/quote]
Look, I wouldn’t tell someone their reply to my thread was non responsive (I guess OP is a lawyer?), but the first reply definitely wasn’t perfect advice. OP is asking how to deal with the feelings she has and the reply was to avoid badmouthing the gf. I agree she shouldn’t badmouth the new gf, but that’s not advice about how to deal with her feelings, that’s just general advice on how she should behave. [/quote]

No actually, the first response had solid advice. Learned/practiced behaviors CAN affect feelings.  If OP learns to behave in a neutral way, she will eventually FEEL neutral about her exDH moving on. [/quote]
If your theory is that acting like you don’t have these feelings will make the feelings go away (fake it ‘til you make it), then that would address the question OP asked, but that’s not what was originally posted.[/quote]

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