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[quote=Anonymous]Hugs, OP. Your dad’s alcoholism, your parents’ divorce, your dad’s shrinking roll in your life, your mom’s financial issues, your anxiety, and your dad’s premature death are a lot to process. A therapist can help you through the process. It’s easy to think of conflicts as having a good side and a bad side, a hero and a villain. In real life, it’s rarely that black and white. Most of us are flawed people doing the best we can, and we’re right sometimes and wrong other times. Your mom and dad both loved you and they each did the best they could. It might help you to remember that your mom was experiencing her own loss and grief. I’m sure she would have preferred for your dad to have stopped drinking and to have had a happy marriage and for him to be a coparent on a daily basis.[/quote]
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