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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have had conversations with a social worker, spouse who was in this situation, etc. I don’t know what to do. When I visit my mom, she seems almost normal. The longer I am gone, the worse she gets. MMSE test didn’t show clinical dementia yet, but I am seeing all the symptoms of confusion, etc. What do I do? How do I handle this? I don’t have a sibling who can help with my mom. I live here in the US, mom in Europe. I have teenage kids, I can’t just pack up everything and move back. Likewise, if she came here, I would have to pay everything out of pocket (I am not rich). I don’t know what I should do and how I can organize care (mental and physical). Please share your experiences, what you would do, and what you think I should do. Fwiw: I am the main breadwinner, have a mortgage and have only 2 choices: 1. A job I like, that pays me more but that’s hybrid. 2. A job that’s fully remote, less money, insane work standards and an awful, awful boss - but I could spend as much time as I want in Europe. I am torn and desperate.[/quote]

OP, you mention only your sister. 
Are there any other relatives who live close to your mom who could check in on her and help a bit?
They could monitor her and report back to you. You could then make an informed decision about what is best for your mom.
You could even FaceTime your relatives when they are with your mom and see for yourself what the situation is like.[/quote]

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