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[quote=Anonymous]OP, Be very kind, warm and nice towards the children - the 9 yr old as well as the two new kids. There are a million ways you can make the 9 year old feel welcome, special and included, in your own house. However, you also need to be welcoming to the second wife, her kids and your cousin. Do you understand this? You can even say to your cousin niece when you are alone - "Please give my regards to your mom!", without becoming nosy. That is the extent of your relationship with her mom. Yes, sure, if you bump into the ex-wife at church, you can be friendly and polite. You can compliment her on her sweet daughter, and maybe some kind of friendship can develop. But, you do not go behind your cousin's back and make friends with her. You have to respect your cousin, the grandparents, the new wife and the new kids too. You really need to stay in your lane but nothing is preventing you from being loving, kind and welcoming to the little girl. [/quote]
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