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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Ok, now you all are scaring me. Believe me, it's NOT my first choice and I also do not like the skimpy clothes, potential girl drama, inappropriate coaches.

I understand what you mean about the stereotype of low/middle class moms steering their girls into cheer.

I'll have to think about it some more. Thanks![/quote]

Buying into a stereotype without real, first hand knowledge is a bad trait. You’re limiting your daughter on preconceived notions. Are you worried about her and the activity or are you worried what other people will think about you? Sounds like you’re worried about being perceived as low class. Do you consider swimsuits skimpy uniforms? They cover less skin. What about volleyball? Definitely shorter than a cheer skirt.

You’re small minded and could end up with your daughter resenting you.

- not a cheerleader [/quote]

I wouldn't call myself small minded but I do have a brain and have a lot to consider here regarding cheerleading as all responsible parents do. I think you were offended that someone mentioned the stereotype of moms from low/middle class backgrounds going into cheer. I wasn't aware of this until someone brought it up, until this point I've only regarded cheer as a spirited, cheerful activity that is female dominated. For the record there are low/middle/high class people who probably put their kids in cheer for various reasons. Ugh only DCUM can put a child's activity into class wars.

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