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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] My DD has never played for Paramount, but I've never understood why people think the Paramount coaches treat the players any differently than the Metro Travel coaches treat their players (have you seen Metro 16s coach be escorted out of the convention center by police before?). That intensity just comes with the territory of playing in and competing at the highest level of the sport (which only Metro and Paramount do in this area; VAE also does but their teams get demolished). If the Paramount coaches are so over the top, then why don't they have a constant turnover of players? Kids and families scratch and claw to get on and stay on their teams, which wouldn't be the case if that stigma were true. Intensity just comes with the territory at those two clubs. [/quote] I think you are right on about certain coaches at those clubs. But the reason they don't have a large turnover of players is because the players need the team more than the team needs them -- you don't even consider those two clubs unless you want to play in college (preferably D1), which is remarkably hard to do, and the players think they need to play on the best team in the area to maximize their recruiting opportunities. Yet even with the power dynamic strongly in the clubs favor, players still leave those clubs. Both clubs are out searching for new players on multiple teams right now -- because they already know some players are leaving. Regarding screaming, there are lots of ways to motivate players, and the screaming approach has gone out of favor for a reason -- it may motivate a player if done once or twice, but it actually reduces motivation when it is frequent. There will always be more players to take their place, so the behavior just continues. But it doesn't have to come with the territory. There are a number of great players in the area that don't play for those teams, and I would guess that one of the reasons they don't is because the coaching style (and team dynamic caused by the players) doesn't work for them. If you watch the D1 college game a lot, you'll notice that coaches rarely ever scream at their players. They may get mad at the refs sometime, but even that is muted. The players on those teams are often even more intense and the overall team skill level is significantly above that of a U16/17/18 Metro Travel/Paramount team -- so if the "intense coach" style you see in club worked, why don't we see it in college? Virtually every club coach at the upper programs gets intense at some point -- they care about their teams and their performance. But if the intensity/screaming/etc. is the normal coaching approach, then you have to be certain your DD can handle it. No level of club volleyball is worth the potential self-esteem and mental health issues that type of coach can cause for a player. [/quote]
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