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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are fine. I would probably try to make proactive plans with your sister to meet the baby, if only so that when my mom gave me crap about it, I could say, "Larla and I talked about it and I've made plans to come see Larlita when she's 3 months old/at Christmas/etc." every time my mom tried to make it a problem.[/quote] NP. This, above, is a very good idea on several fronts. Gives you something to say that will shut mom up, OP, and also means you and your sister can look forward to your official first meeting with the baby! I too am quite private about certain things. My mom didn't see our baby until the baby was six weeks old, DH's parents saw her at six months (they're thousands of miles away). Many new parents want the birth to be just the two parents there, then some weeks of quiet bonding as a nuclear family without even grandparents or siblings/aunts/uncles around. It's fine. [/quote]
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