Reply to Married and infatuated with coworker

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Married and infatuated with coworker"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve never done this. But I have a new coworker and we just click. In every sense. He makes me feel like I’m 18 again with my first love…. Not the middle age married soccer mom that I am now.  I’m deeply infatuated.

My marriage is blah, but DH is a nice guy. Coworker is also married, lives a plane ride away (we travel together sometimes), and while he shows signs of interest we both try hard not to acknowledge it - though I’m the one who holds back. It’s hard because we have to work together and I’m constantly coming up with excuses why I can’t collaborate when the reality is that I can only think of NSFW stuff when he calls and we are supposed to be reviewing spreadsheets…

It’s distracting and I want it to end this feeling and either a) move on with my boring dead marriage existence of driving kids to suburban soccer games or b) just do this already. But, I don’t feel like I can let my guard down because I could be wrong - he could just be nice and I’m interpreting nice as something more.

Any advice from someone who has been there done that?

I’m thinking of getting therapy. [/quote]

BTDT. I had an identical experience but mine was totally different in that the co-worker I was infatuated with turned out to be someone else who I thought was confusing them with, but wasn't. But once I figured that out, I couldn't believe that not only were we not coworkers, we weren’t even employed by the same company  :cry: . In the end it got pretty crazy, but we made it through. Although the whole time people said we should come clean and be honest with our employers, yeah right, neither of them would even acknowledge us or admit that neither of us was employed by them, or any of their so-called competitors. It was too easy for them to just “follow a protocol.” But it all worked out in the middle and it was pretty funny that we had the same first initials but different last names. And vice versa.  :lol: [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics