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[quote=Anonymous]Your sister who cancelled on you has poor boundaries and I would not make plans with her again. if she reaches out to you, I would either make plans where you don't care if she shows up-go someplace you would go anyway or make it clear you consider cancelling for illness a real excuse not suddenly needing to help a capable sibling. You cannot control their choices, you can just protect yourself. My mom and sister and very co-dependent. I think it's unhealthy, but it's their lives. I think my mother enables my sister, but it's her choice. I just set my own boundaries and let them do their dance and figure things out for themselves.[/quote]
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