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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. 
By triggered I mean I hate being around the two of them together for making plans with them. If I make plans with Ann, I almost have to make sure that Belle is free first to watch the kids because that is who she will ask instead of having her husband parent. 
If I make plans with Belle I have to make sure first they Ann does not need her to watch the kids. It's exhausting and I think I'm done. It's sad because I have a great relationship with both of them, but the three of us can never do anything since Ann won't leave the kids with her husband for more than an hour. He has a well paying job and younger siblings and nieces and nephews and from everything I have seen and that Belle has said he is a great involved parent when Ann lets him. 
She likes things done a certain way and does not like that he handles situations differently than she would. Part of it is she can strong our bell and to doing and reacting exactly how she wants but she can't do that with her husband necessarily. Small things like reading three books at bedtime instead of just one. For wearing the green stocking cap to go on a walk instead of the brown one.

I haven't said anything to them which is why I'm probably venting here and realize it's not my monkeys and not my circus. But it does feel good just to get it out there. [/quote]

You have a “great relationship with both of them”? And you’re on here yapping and judging and “triggered” over how they choose to spend their time? Get over yourself, and no, you don’t have a “great relationship” with them. You need to see a therapist, and I mean that in a very straightforward way—seeing a therapist has helped me a lot. [/quote]

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