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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There may be dynamics at play you know nothing about. My SIL could have written this, and I am sure she knows nothing about the abuse her DH perpetrated on me 30 years ago. I’m not saying that’s what this is, but there could be all sorts of things underlying this that they don’t want to dig up for their own reasons, even if it’s just sibling rivalry that was never resolved or emotional disconnect in the family system that your DH worked through. Let sleeping dogs (that are not your own) lie. It’s not an issue unless it’s an issue for THEM.[/quote] It is possible but I doubt it. OP says that her SIL likes to brag. It sounds like it's SIL's personality that is the issue. And even if the DH and the SIL have unresolved issues, why would SIL not want to form a bond with OP? It's not OP's fault if there are dynamics at play from her husband's and his sister's past.[/quote]
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