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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. I grew up with a single parent, working class, only child household, witnessed dv, as I aged thru schools, went to college, then I joined a church and small group and noticed over time my relationships or friendships start off with one or two people and then spawn into larger mutual groups where I am not invited to parties or events like game nights but the person having the events remains in communication with me. Which leads me to think while I consider them close, they may have me in the acquaintances or less close friend group even with daily texting and weekly check ins, etc.. I’ve had no one come or send a card or reach out after surgeries, but have gone for visits to see them in hospital, sent gifts and flowers for their surgeries, losses, and births, but it’s a continual cycle of what I presume is me feeling closer or more connected than they must. Thank you all for sharing your experiences as well! I’ll look for the book![/quote]
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