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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So the title alone makes me cringe but this is actually a topic of discussion in our household right now. My beautiful, smart, funny, daughter has asymmetrical breasts.  Now I know almost everyone does to some extent but hers are at least a full cup difference.  When she was 14 we started getting special fitting bras and I assumed they would even out but at this point I don't think they will and 3 different physicians agree.  She really wants to get this corrected before college and I understand her pov but it makes me sad and wonder if I am sending the wrong message.  Plus I don't think she is thinking long term, like breastfeeding ect.  I know she wants to go to college and feel confident and although she hasnt directly admitted it to me I know she wants to feel comfortable naked with anyone if a relationship goes in that direction. Most of me thinks it's ok and she deserves to get it corrected but a small part of me wants her to accept her body as it is. I don't want this correction to lead to many unnecessary ones.  Any perspectives? Thanks![/quote]

After looking at the breast website including the post surgical section,  I would be skeptical about this surgery.  If she has rounded breasts with normal nip and one is a b and the other a c then why bother?   Most people have some variation between both of them.    If one was skinny tubular and an a and the other looked like it was from a different body then I see an issue.  Or a third nipple.

So you might be sending the wrong message.  Victorias secret has bras where you can put inserts in -use  light push up pad in one and not the other .   AA and C are different.  But A and B or B and C for similar shapes are not worth a surgery.    So as a mom of a girl in college I guess I'd first try non-clinical bra shopping or at least do that before surgery if that route is taken.

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