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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're obviously reading a lot into the comment because of your history. But the reality is you're a long way from being able to fit into those clothes and your mom wants to purge now. Would you want to take a bunch of clothes now that you may not be able to wear for a year or so?[/quote]

OP presumably has a closet and keep it there until she is back to her former size. It was a rude comment. OP is aware she has been pregnant. Would the mom rather it sit for a little while in OPs closet or be sorted at goodwill and sit for a while there or perhaps sit for a while at a consignment shop.

That said, with dyfunctional people it is not worth the cost of accepting anything for free. Better to not expect anything, be distant and polite.[/quote]

Why does anyone care how long anything sits at Goodwill? The point is that it would be out of my closet if it was me. But if I thought it would go to someone who can use it and wear it I might prefer that. OP may or may not be able to wear the clothes in the future. Maybe her mom just wants to make sure someone can use it. The clothes hers to give away, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks she should do with them.[/quote]

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