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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You had a toxic childhood. Stop this nonsense now. You don’t need a better relationship with this woman — you need much less of a relationship with her. And your kids don’t need any of this!!![/quote] +1 Sges done a number on you. Maybe she is so ill thst she can’t help herself, but boy - the dynamic you described is 100% toxic. There is no reason you should subject your kids to that dysfunction. This is unsolvable, and will not change. You seem to feel responsible for her emotional state, and you are not. I don’t have the bandwidth right now to dig deep but I could barely read your account because I did not understand why you are putting yourself snd your kids in this position - desperate for her approval. Because she kill’s herself to cook and clean for you? She spends hours on a meal so you should be enmeshed and have no boundaries? No.[/quote]
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