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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes she is toxic. You just haven't had enough therapy to see it yet. Don't make her issues yours. I wouldn't have my kids around someone like that. She's estranged from other people because of her issues. This isn't love. Please get a good therapist. You are being gaslit and manipulated by a narcissist. Any therapist will easily see this. You can work on your depression and need for boundaries with your mother.  I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please take care of you. Your mother can take care of herself. It is not your problem, even though she seems to have brainwashed you into thinking it is. [/quote]

I have a therapist. He has been trying to help me improve my relationship with her but it hasn’t improved. Sometimes, she is temporarily satiated and not complaining, but it is always temporary.

I always thought it was my dad who was a narcissist. I never once considered that my mom might be one. She was always on the receiving end of my dad’s verbal abuse. She was pretty quiet during our childhood. But at some point, after we left the house, they kind of switched places. She was the controlling one who was always yelling at my dad and he turned quiet and depressed. [/quote]

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