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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m married, but I would love to be a little bit divorced as far as custody.  Wouldn’t it be amazing to just know, say, that you have every Wednesday and Thursday evening free?  You could schedule haircuts or take meetings late or go to happy hour or plan to get things done and know there was a time available to do it.

Divorce is hard, and I don’t envy anyone who has gone through it, but I would love to have regular, predictable, uninterrupted time away from my children.[/quote]

So why don’t you hire a babysitter to come every Thursday night? Or swap play dates with friends so one mom watches your kid every Thursday and you watch their kid every Tuesday? This isn’t that hard.[/quote]

It’s actually a lot to ask someone to pick your kids up from daycare and school, feed them dinner, help with homework, and get them ready for bed.  I’ve asked friends to do this in an emergency, and I’ve done it in an emergency, but I don’t know anyone who does this regularly just to give themselves and their friends a break.  Do you?
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The only way you can get this with regularity is to have live in help, eg an au pair and you give her a short day somewhere else to compensate. [/quote]

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