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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People,of all ages but particularly the young, currently have this weird contractual view of relationships and see consent as the sole highest arbiter of whats right and wrong. Since the unmarried woman was under no contractual obligation to anyone nor to honor fidelity, she therefore did nothing wrong morally.

This is, of course, nonsense and obviously false, but consent morality is the dominant sentiment in society. “Vows” and “sexual restraint” are completely old fuddy duddy ideas gone the way of the dodo.[/quote]

You are contradicting yourself. The other woman didn't take any vows. The married man did.[/quote]
But everyone knows married people take vows and they, the other spouse, and their children should be left alone out of respect for not just the individuals  but the institution of marriage and family itself. [/quote]

You don't have much of a marriage if you're counting on total strangers to keep it together for you. It's on you and your spouse to do that.[/quote]
This is stupid. It’s a [former] social contract. No different than having the very normal expectation that your neighbors will respect your property and won’t steal your TV when you’re not home, or that a teacher won’t molest your child at school. No one needs to be beholden to an explicit contract of consent to know what’s right or wrong.[/quote]

TV has no control over being stolen or not. Men are not property. Cheating often happens when OW is married herself. Nobody owes you to keep yoir family intact even your own husband if he wants an exit .
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A lot of women seem to think their husband is their property and that an OW “steals” it. [/quote]

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