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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: thanks for all the advice. Is it reasonable to expect to be taken out once per week? Im fine with planning a date on the other nights we see each other and/or staying home together.[/quote] I’m someone who doesn’t it find it reasonable and that’s ME. I love staying home. I’d rather plan stuff together, not plan some kind of “date night” dog and pony show. But that’s me. It’s totally okay if that’s what YOU want. And it’s totally okay If this dude thinks it’s unreasonable. Frankly, by 9 months in, my now DH and I weren’t doing anything like “dates” anymore, and if he all of a sudden wanted that kind of going out formality and expense, we would have broken up, because we would be incompatible. Ask for what you want. If it’s not reasonable to him, it’s ok to find out that you are incompatible. Don’t stay and be disappointed all the time. Just find a guy who likes going out that much, too.[/quote]
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