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[quote=Anonymous]How old are you both? What you need to know varies by age. I would be careful about asking questions about how someone will act or be or what they will want in future hypothetical situations. Those change with time and the reality of the situation. I think it is dangerous to hold people to things they told you about hypothetical wants / actions years before in a different context. Do you want children - a good question. Expecting them to commit to a number of children before they have ever been a parent and without knowing what the first child(ren) you have will be like sets you up for resentment. People's perspectives change with time and experience and that is a good thing![/quote]
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