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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks all for the advice. I'm working on letting it go but having a hard time. I keep thinking about what could've happened to my baby. It was a scary situation and being a first time mom isn't making it easier.

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I don't have BIL's #, nor does he have mine. DH and SIL would've found out anyway if we asked them for it.

I don't have expectations now. What's done is done. After hearing his explanation and him knowing it was me when he made the turn, I wished he had handled things differently before and after. I understand that's out of my control, so I'm telling myself that when people show you who they are, believe them. I'm sure the same goes for him re me now. I think I'll have to treat him like that 'family' member you have to deal with on holidays as I'm working on letting it go.
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You are being really overdramatic here.  BIL thought he could make the turn with lots of room and was wrong. Surely that’s happened to every single driver before, including you. He apologized. Your reaction at this point is ridiculous. If this event is causing you so much trauma,  perhaps you should seek help.[/quote]
This. Definitely overdramatic for a mistake that didn’t actually lead to an injury. I sort of hear what you are saying s out owning up to it, but since you weren’t injured, there’s nothing much to be gained by affirmatively apologizing to you, especially given your lack of close relationship.[/quote]

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