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[b]I found a text inviting old frat friends to Vegas one week after I’m due with our baby.[/b]

The term my grandmother would have used is: You need to give him a "come to Jesus talk." Or whatever your background would call it.

The talk where you do NOT apologize one bit for "snooping" but you show him his own text -- PLEASE tell me you have a screen shot of it on your own phone somehow! And point out that he seems ignorant of the idea YOU ARE GOING TO GIVE BIRTH  and he will not be in Vegas, or anywhere except home with your other kids. He will try to dance around it, deflect, say he got the dates wrong, say you're being "emotional because, pregnancy hormones" blah blah blah.

He's got an alcohol problem and takes you for granted.

You have a nanny? Good. Time for her to work extra while you make immediate arrangements for marriage therapy. Yes, now, before the baby comes. He needs to get his a@$ to AA tonight. (You do not have to drink every day to have a problem. What you describe, regular all-day drinking occasionally, can be a form of alcoholism too.)

He also needs to tell all his "bro" friends he's out of their loop for a long time to come. He puts them and his good times ahead of you AND YOUR CHILDREN.

I'm shouting because you need to wake up. I won't scream "divorce" at you because you have to deal with his drinking, get him more present mentally for when the baby arriaves, and get past the birth first. But you need him to wake the F up, as do you. [/quote]

Unless there is a text where he accepts the invite, I wouldn’t focus on this but rather his actual demonstrated behaviors.  He can’t prevent people from inviting him to places, only his RSVPs.[/quote]

He's the one who sent the evite.[/quote]

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