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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again.  I have been so heartened by the supportive replies.  I've found a couple synagogues close to my home in NW that seem, at least from their websites, to be very open to interfaith couples, as well as non-Jews interested in learning more.  I plan to start by going to some services.  The more I read about Judaism, the more I'm realizing it is totally in line with my belief system and values...sort of an 'aha" moment on my spiritual quest.  I'm really excited to learn more.

The great irony is that my former husband is Jewish (non-practicing though) and while married to him, I never considered conversion!
Guess he rubbed off though in some positive way.

Thank you again for all the wonderful advice.  [/quote]

OP - not to discourage you, but just something to keep in mind. If your husband/children are not Jewish, you really need to carefully consider how this will impact them and your family.  While you may start the conversion process in a synagogue or sect (Reform) in which an interfaith relationship is viable, once you start learning, you may find yourself gravitating towards a more observant lifestyle.  I have many friends who began the conversion process with a Reform rabbi, but ultimately converted under Orthodox auspices.  I am sure your rabbi will advise on this, but it is very difficult to reconcile observant orthodox or conservative Judaism with Christianity and very difficult, if not impossible, to lead an observant Jewish lifestyle in a household where others do not share those values. [/quote]

OP here again.  Your points are completely valid, and deserve serious consideration.  If I find this is the right path for me , I would like to raise my children, who are still very young, as Jews (it looks like they would need to convert as well, though the process appears much simpler).  Obviously, my husband -- a Christian by upbringing, though not in practice-- needs to be on board.  He knows of my interest in Judaism and that I do not believe in the fundamental tenets of Christianity, though he is unaware of the level of my interest as yet.  As much as I seek a spiritual and religious home, I recognize that our family unit comes first.

I am just having such a hard time reconciling Christian teachings with my own beliefs and am starting to get asked many questions by my children that I just can't answer honestly without completely contradicting what they have heard in church and from their Christian friends and relatives.  I want my children to grow up with religion, so I feel like their curiosity is kind of forcing the issue right now.   Once again, really appreciate the thoughtful responses.  [/quote]

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