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[quote=Anonymous]If he tried all sorts of different things to keep things harmonious and it didn't work, another option is to make it her choice. "Mom if you chose to keep insulting me/guilt tripping me/manipulating then I am going to need to take a break from this relationship." or "If the only thing you have to say is hurtful, then do not reach out to me."

My mother chose to keep being hurtful after I drew the line in the sand. The break was healing for me. The first few weeks I was panicked she would unleash her fury in certified letters or some other way to force herself upon me. Once I knew she was leaving me alone, I slept better and could accomplish more at work without all that emotional clutter. I was more available and supportive with my husband and kids. She eventually reached out maybe 6 months later and we have a very low contact relationship like with a distant relative. Much better. She treats people who are practically strangers with far more dignity than she treats those she gets close to. There has been no abuse since. As soon as her dark side appears I will take another break.[/quote]

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