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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They were both children experimenting. I am 2 years olde then my brother and I remember playing doctor when we were little. We were probably a little younger, but an 8 and 12 year old are still children. I am not saying what happened wasn’t bad or traumatizing because I don’t know who your brother was and he was 4 years older. That said, he was still very very young. Not a monster.[/quote] Speaking as someone who was molested by my 4 years older brother when we were young, I agree. My brother is not a monster, and in fact he probably was traumatized himself, which makes me so, so sad. The experience was also very traumatizing for me. We have a pretty close relationship now and have never talked about it. But, I’ve done a lot of therapy. I’m so sorry your family is going through this OP. [/quote]
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