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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here, DH thinks it ridiculous that we pay every time. I am more than happy to pay because we usually suggest the restaurants. I don’t want to spring a $400 tab on someone who may have been A ok with going to Olive Garden. Even if they pick a place, I usually intend to pick up the tab. In laws are in town and this weekend, we have spent about $1000. DH thinks that’s outlandish but it also included groceries for them in the house and their Ubers. [/quote] Ok, I agree that if we choose a restaurant that our visiting family wouldn't normally pick, then we'd pick up the tab. But our family would also try to reciprocate in some ways and not expect us to pick up all the tabs. This is your H's parents, and presumably he knows his family dynamic better. If he thinks it's excessive, then maybe he has a point. I'd take his input into consideration too. [/quote]
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