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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have 16-17 year old g/b twins in NW DC/close-in Bethesda. 
My kids have friends across public/private/Catholic.

My daughter has a tight group of friends (6) and none of them have ever dated.  They find that the boys are only interested in a select type of girls. 
My daughter and her friends are pretty, sporty, stylish, slim, smart.  What they aren't are popular and they're not the types to post bikini shots on Instagram.

They receive next to no interest from boys.  For some time this seemed awesome (who needs boys?) but now I find myself feeling a bit sad for them.  It feels
(maybe I'm wrong) that girls have to really sell themselves these days to get the attention of ANY boys.  All the boys are clamoring over the same circle of girls
(the popular 10 or so from each high school and they all know each other from Instagram) and the rest receive no attention.  This transcends schools (these are boys from Catholic/public/private).  My son and his friends are guilty of it as well which makes it worse.  They turn up their noses (and basically lead on and then make fun of) other girls.  
It's horrible and I've had long talks to him about it. Many long talks.

Anyone else notice this dynamic?  It doesn't feel like it was this way when I was growing up.  Boys were less picky and less a$$holish about girls.  [/quote]

[b]I am sure there are boys who are interested in them but they are not the popular boys your dd is interested in. [/b]Do not believe what they are selling. It’s a bunch of teenagers who have been in pandemic isolation for a few years. [/quote]

Yes! But I remember back in the 90’s, most of us dated, the boys were still jerks.[/quote]

I bet you were pretty jerky as a teenager to the boys. I remember my brother having a growth spurt and filling out over the summer. The girls all of the sudden thought he was the one. I will never forget how mean those girls were. They were just vicious. [/quote]

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